Society and Relationships
Posted on December, 2009
If you are a Lover, your passion is the intimacy of giving and receiving. Whether you are sharing your gifts and talents with the world at large, or you are having a one-on-one love relationship, matrimonial relationship, friendship, a relatives or a relationship with a co-worker, you get pleasure from fusing your essential being with all in life. Since relationship is the main center of attention of your life, when you're not in a loving relationship, you're probably looking for one. You can instruct others how to love and "act" closeness. When the Lover is in bloom, you light up the world. Your eagerness, imagination and honesty make you irresistible. Your shine ignites the glow in others and helps them grow into their full possible.
But as the day is followed by the night, the Lover's shine casts a shadow. At their worst, Lovers are "energy vampires," over-connecters who fuse with a grip that can be extremely smothering. As the Vamp, they can be dreadfully needy, selfish, and depleting. In anger, they can beat up a squall and hit out with deadly words, wanting to hurt those who have hurt them. Vamps can burn out the people in their lives with drama after drama.
Vamps can be very charming and sexy in relationships. When they turn their thought in your path, they can attraction the pants off you. As long as the skill lasts, you'll feel as though you are the most brilliant, fascinating creature in the universe. The trouble is, it may not last long. As soon as they've got you hooked, they are likely to move on to greener pastures because Vamps are involved to the engaged. Deep inside, they feel worthless; therefore they don't want to be members of any team that would have them. Lovers have a particular talent for familiarity, but until they learn how to be self-nurturing and to give without expecting something in return, they often use moments of connection to feed off the energy of others. They seduce you so that you'll validate them in the mistaken belief that this gives them an identity. Sadly, they often don't know how beloved and wonderful they are.
